By Darryl W. Thomas, Jr.

A Battle Worn Long After the War
What if I told you that men are five times more likely than women to apply a permanent solution to a temporary problem? Would that shock you? Afterall, we as men like to get the job done, right? Well in this case it is sad but true… yet wrong.
More than 49,000 Americans died by suicide in 2022, and males accounted for nearly 80% of those deaths — nearly five times higher than women — highlighting a silent crisis among men, especially fathers and husbands.
For family men, this pressing reality is a reminder: the battles fought on the home front are as real and field-tested as those in overseas combat.
Comparing Wars: The Marine and the Dad
Having served our country from 2000 to 2005; I was one of many called into wartime situations. As a U.S. Marine, I spent time in Kuwait in 2003 and Iraq in 2004. One prominent lesson that I learned is that battle fatigue isn’t left on the battlefield. PTSD, a brutal companion in wartime, finds its way home. Making the internal battles more complex and difficult to conquer.
A year after leaving the Corps, my wife began to show signs of a debilitating, incurable, and hereditary disorder as she was pregnant with our third child. To say that it was challenging is a gross understatement. So, my load was comprised of dealing with PTSD coupled with trying to stay present for a sick spouse, maintaining emotional availability for three children – ultimately five, operating a business, working a 9-5 job and serving the community.
I discovered that I was not the only man dealing with such heaviness. I also learned that, in combat, the enemy is visible. At home, the enemy often hides in exhaustion, emotional silence, guilt, and the heavy expectation to carry all burdens alone.
As a family, your peace is vital. In light of June being the month that we celebrate fathers and Men’s Mental Health Awareness month, I implore all fathers to consider the following.
Three Ways Fathers Can Protect Their Peace
- Battle Begins with Boundaries- Protect your non-negotiable time for family dinners, prayer, and exercise like you would mission-critical operations. Leave work at work. Be where your feet are. Oftentimes, your presence is more important than your provision. It’s here that mental and spiritual strength are safeguarded.
- Deploy Your Support Network- In the Corps, every Marine has a battle buddy. At home, you can create a similar system — regular check-ins with another father, a mentor, or a counselor help fight isolation and toxic stoicism. Don’t be that lone wolf because a lone wolf will starve.
- Own Your Emotional Scars- PTSD and anxiety don’t look a certain way. I don’t care how well you try to dress it up, it will reveal itself. When untreated it can cause collateral damage. Success at work cannot mask the emotional scars. Your community involvement cannot conceal unhealed wounds.
Courageously admitting that there are issues begins the path to healing. Again, don’t face them alone. Taking that first step is an act of courage that models strength for your family.
Three Additional Strategies to Secure the Home Front
- Routine Physical Readiness:Complete at least three workouts per week — whether it’s a brisk walk around the neighborhood, a ruck march, a lifting session in the garage or weight-training at the gym. Implement a routine of bodily exercise to regulate stress, release endorphins, and maintain clarity.
- Spiritual Resupply:Engage in weekly (if possible, daily) spiritual practices — Bible study, meditation, or prayer walks — to replenish the inner well from which you lead. This strategy is a gamechanger.
- Intentional Debriefing:Schedule a monthly “T-time discussion” with your spouse. The more frequent the discussion, the better. What is T-time? It is short for truth time. This is a moment to discuss wins, struggles, and emotional needs honestly without judgement. It invites connection and clarifies purpose.
Closing Words to the Warriors at HomeMen, the uniform may come off, but your battles don’t. Strength is not measured by how much you can carry — it’s proven by how bravely you choose healing. Your legacy isn’t built in silence but in the courage to open up, rest, and invite support.
Mission Orders Start Today: Choose one tip and commit. Join the Brotherhood: Be in the house—virtually—this Tuesday at 6 pm CST on YouTube Live (@1DarrylWThomas) for my REAL Talk Tuesday session. Let’s stand together and talk real. https://www.youtube.com/@1darrylwthomas/streams Engage Back: Comment on what tactic you’re using to guard your mental health or share a story that inspires.And please think about supporting our Hope for the Underdogs summer initiative. A father’s healing helps a generation bloom. Your participation can make a difference.
http://www.committed2win.com/hopefortheunderdogs

Darryl W. Thomas, Jr. is a U.S. Marine Corps veteran, leadership development expert, award-winning speaker, five-time bestselling author, and at-risk interventionist with over two decades of experience. He is the CEO of Committed 2 Win, a personal and leadership development community focused on inspiring, challenging, and empowering young people and adults to overcome adversity and take ownership in becoming the best version of themselves. Beyond his professional achievements, Darryl is a devoted family man, married to his high school sweetheart for 24 years and father to five children: a U.S. Marine, a TCU graduate, a University High School graduate, and two University High scholar-athletes.
By Elizabeth Riley
Spring is the season of rebirth for all creatures alike, leaving our summers filled with numerous displaced animals throughout the streets of Waco. On any walk or drive around town, these animals are bound to cross our paths, seeking help and a little bit of love. Texas summers are sweltering hot, with the sun heating up pavement on roads and sidewalks to unimaginable temperatures. If you’re uncomfortable being in this heat, these vulnerable, defenseless creatures feel just as bad.
Stray animals suffer from sunburn, heat exhaustion, and dehydration just like us. While an animal’s paw pads are thick and durable for all-terrain, they burn within minutes on hot pavement. If you see an animal walking quickly with high steps, quite like a horse at a show, take a moment to show it some compassion, bring them into a cool space, and give them some rest. The least we can do is inform our animal-loving selves on how to handle another one of our vulnerable populations and take action to help the animals in our city.

Animal Rescue 101:
- Check Microchip for Owner Information: When rescuing any animal, the first goal should be to reunite them with their owner. To do so, check for any identifying tags or scan them for a microchip at a local fire station or humane society. Most animals are implanted with microchips before adoption, but many owners fail to register their information with their pet–you can double-check at your next vet appointment!
- Waco fire stations scan stray animals for microchips and send finders off with information sheets and surrender waivers. Dropping an animal anywhere for purposes of abandonment is illegal.
- Reunite the Animal with the Owner or Surrender to the Humane Society: Reuniting a missing pet with their worried owner is one of the best feelings in the world. However, if a microchip or additional information is missing, dropping the animal off at the nearest shelter is the next best option. Waco animal shelters are currently over capacity.
- At Pet Circle, all payment fees have been waived to promote rehoming. While encouraging adoption from all of our local animal shelters, pet owners should do vast research before taking on such responsibilities.Pets are family. These vulnerable creatures depend on us like children, needing intense care, effort, and patience.
- At Fuzzy Friends, where founder and director Betsy Robinson has just stepped down, workers are converting bathroom stalls into kennels to house dogs.
- Foster or Volunteer with Local Shelters: While many fear the foster process due to the stereotypical “foster fail” tale, the process of bringing comfort to an animal long enough for them to express their personality and matching them with a proper family is highly rewarding.

If you’re unable to open your homes to these animals, you can still dedicate your time to their care by volunteering. While loving on these creatures, they easily open up and display their unique characteristics worthy of adoration. Your time, care, and compassion can help in rehoming these animals. Our local shelters need our help.

Elizabeth Riley hails from Tennessee and is a graduate of English Literature and Professional Writing & Rhetoric from Baylor University. With passions in archival preservation, communal connection, and women in sports, she writes because it matters, with hopes of bridging villages and fostering revelry amongst them.
June is a month where we celebrate Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month!
As demands surge — school, work, college, extracurriculars — young people are increasingly bearing mental health strain especially young men aged 16–24. Among men of color, the pressure is profound: suicide ranks as the third leading cause of death for Black males aged 15–24, their death rate more than quadrupling that of Black females in 2021 (Office of Minority Health, 2023). This isn’t just a statistic — it’s a call to action.
“Comwmunity is much more than belonging to something; it’s about doing something together that makes belonging matter.” – Brian Solis
It is time to band together as a community that cares deeply. That truth often gets buried beneath cultural expectations of stoicism, peer pressure, and the relentless pursuit of success. So how can young men protect their peace and nurture mental resilience?
5 Powerful Tips for Young Men to Protect Their Peace
1. Own Your Story, Not the PressureRecognize that your worth isn’t determined by the GPA, game stats, or job title. Defining what matters most to you — not what society expects — provides clarity and emotional grounding.
2. Talk It Out with Real PeopleSilence can amplify stress. Seek trusted friends, family, mentors, or counselors. Remember: 26% fewer Black and Hispanic men seek mental health treatment compared to white peers — breaking silence is the first step (CDC, 2015).
3. Create Non-Negotiable ‘Me Time’Whether it’s basketball, music, reading a book like Today We Win, or time in nature, carve out moments just for you. These breaks are essential for emotional recalibration.
4. Build Your Resilience ToolboxDevelop healthy coping strategies — set boundaries, practice mindfulness, or log your emotions nightly. Preparing now means fewer cracks later when stress spikes.
5. Connect to a Supportive CommunityJoin a team, mentoring group, or faith circle where you belong. Group accountability isn’t just social — it’s protective. When we uplift each other, we all rise stronger.
“Asking for Help: Courage isn’t just about standing alone; it’s all about reaching out when you need it.”
How We’re Making a Difference
This summer, Committed 2 Win’s Hope for the Underdogs initiative will visit each Texas Juvenile Detention Center and Juvenile Correctional Facility to reach detained and disconnected teens across the state.
For more info visit: http://www.committed2win.com/hopefortheunderdogs
Through inspiring talks and literacy — using TODAY… I WIN and both volumes of TODAY WE WIN — and peer-led leadership programming, we provide tools for mental well-being and self-belief. We tackle the cycle of pressure, praise, and placement into support networks that redefine their future.
Your Role: Be the Change
If you’re a parent, educator, coach, or mentor:
- Invite honest conversation: Create safe spaces where young men can share without judgment. Despite their ages and level of responsibility, someone to confide will always be a necessity for young men.
- Be an ally: Model or support men’s mental health care by setting a strong, compassionate example. If you are not a man, then intentionally connect him to a man who leads by example.
- Support initiatives like Hope for the Underdogs: Donate funds, resources, your time, or connections to personal or professional networks.When we invest in young men’s emotional well-being, we uplift families, communities, and our shared future.
- Let’s Connect: I’m Darryl W. Thomas, Jr. — U.S. Marine wartime veteran, leadership mentalist, bestselling author, and founder of Committed 2 Win. I’ve stood with young men facing daunting expectations and watched them step into courage. If you believe in supporting their mental health journey, let’s connect.
Together, we can amplify voices, break stigma, and build platforms for young men to thrive.Join us this summer. Support Hope for the Underdogs and help create safe spaces where mission meets mercy — and where success includes emotional wellness. Because empowering a young man today means inspiring a legacy tomorrow.www.committed2win.com/hopefortheunderdogs
www.darrylwthomas.com
The second weekend of June is busy for all of Waco! As summer temperatures return after a week of rain, expect neighbors and tourists alike to be soaking up the sun, tearing up the town, and gathering together in community.

FUN FACT: The earliest documented Waco celebration occurred in 1876, which included a two-thousand-person procession led by the Waco Colored Band and local societies, including the Rising Stars and the Young Men’s Club. The groups waved bright-colored banners and wore dazzling uniforms. The parade ended at Waco Creek, in the southern part of the city, where celebrants listened to various speakers and a reading of the Declaration of Independence. Afterward, they danced, sang, and ate together. Read more HERE!
The farmers market will operate on normal hours, but don’t miss the parade starting at 10am! The Juneteenth Parade Celebration will kick off on Elm Avenue. This event, annually hosted by the Central Texas African American Chamber of Commerce, will be starting at Heritage Square Park, traversing down Washington Avenue, and ending at Quinn Campus in East Waco.
Join the community in reflection and celebration of Freedom Day! From noon to 1:30pm, the No Kings Protest will be gathering at Valley Mills Drive and Waco Drive in recognition of the Nationwide Day of Defiance. Setting up at what has been deemed Waco’s Freedom Corner, this event will continue commemorating the impact of Freedom Day, recognizing Flag Day and the genesis of the US Army, and protesting subjectivity within our own country.
Art Center Waco screening the short documentary “I Have A Story To Tell” at 2pm. The film, presented and directed by De’Viar Woodson, documents the first year of A Beautiful Message, an art program founded by Vincent Thomas. The program encourages students to engage in mural painting, leadership training and exhibiting their artwork.
The screening is part of New Growth: Celebrating Juneteenth and Freedom Through Black Hair, a juried exhibition on view from May 22 to June 26. In collaboration with A Beautiful Message, Art Center Waco is showcasing works by 14 Texas-based African American artists who explore the cultural and historical significance of Black hairstyles—ranging from afros and cornrows to locs and braids.
These hairstyles represent both identity and resistance. According to African folklore, enslaved women used intricate braiding patterns to communicate escape routes and hide items like seeds and coins to support survival after escape. In this way, hairstyles became powerful tools for freedom and cultural preservation.
This weekend is the perfect time to get out and connect with the Waco community. Whether you’re exploring local art, attending special events or simply spending time with neighbors, there’s no better way to celebrate the creativity and culture that make our city so vibrant. Come out, show your support and be part of the story.

Written by: Darryl W. Thomas, Jr.

In the heart of Texas, a transformative movement is taking root—Hope for the Underdogs, a summer initiative by Committed 2 Win. This program is more than a seasonal project; it’s a lifeline for justice-involved youth, aiming to break the cycles of illiteracy and recidivism that have long plagued our communities.
The Literacy-Recidivism Link
In my journey working with justice-involved youth, I’ve witnessed firsthand how the inability to read proficiently can limit a young person’s potential and contribute to a cycle of incarceration. It’s a harsh reality: over 70% of inmates in America’s prisons cannot read above a fourth-grade level. Moreover, 85% of juveniles who interact with the juvenile court system are functionally illiterate.
In Texas, the situation is equally concerning. The juvenile recidivism rate stands at 46.7%, meaning nearly half of all juvenile offenders are arrested again within three years. These statistics aren’t just numbers; they represent real lives affected by a lack of access to education and resources. They underscore the urgent need for interventions that address literacy as a foundational skill for rehabilitation and reintegration.Through initiatives like Hope for the Underdogs, we’re striving to change this narrative by providing young people with the tools they need to succeed, both inside and outside the classroom.
Our Mission: Literacy as Liberation
Hope for the Underdogs is committed to reversing these trends by equipping detained youth with the tools they need to succeed. Central to our initiative are three powerful books:
- TODAY… I WIN: When Tests Go Beyond the Classroom
- TODAY WE WIN: How Real Students Found the Answers to Life’s Test (Volumes 1 and 2)
These Amazon bestsellers are not just reading materials; they are catalysts for change, offering relatable narratives that inspire and empower.
Statewide Impact
This summer, our initiative will reach across Texas, bringing our literacy and leadership programs to juvenile detention centers, schools, and community organizations. By focusing on reading comprehension, critical thinking, and personal development, we aim to reduce recidivism rates and foster a new generation of leaders.
Join the MovementWe invite educators, community leaders, and concerned citizens to support our mission. Here’s how you can get involved:
- Partner with Us: Collaborate to bring our programs to your local institutions.
- Sponsor Books: Provide resources for detained juveniles across the state of Texas.
- Spread the Word: Share our mission with your networks to raise awareness.
Together, we can rewrite the narratives of countless young Texans, turning stories of struggle into tales of triumph.For more information, visit www.committed2win.com/hopefortheunderdogs.
Note: The statistics and references provided are based on available data and aim to highlight the importance of addressing literacy in efforts to reduce juvenile recidivism.
Darryl W. Thomas, Jr. is a U.S. Marine Corps veteran, leadership development expert, award-winning speaker, five-time bestselling author, and at-risk interventionist with over two decades of experience. He is the CEO of Committed 2 Win, a personal and leadership development community focused on inspiring, challenging, and empowering young people and adults to overcome adversity and take ownership in becoming the best version of themselves. Beyond his professional achievements, Darryl is a devoted family man, married to his high school sweetheart for 24 years and father to five children: a U.S. Marine, a TCU graduate, a University High School graduate, and two University High scholar-athletes.

A Crisis in the Shadows
As graduation caps soar, a sobering reality grounds us: during the 2020–2021 academic year, over 60% of college students met the criteria for at least one mental health problem, according to the Healthy Minds Study, which collects data from 373 campuses nationwide (Lipson et al., 2022). This statistic underscores the urgent need to address mental health as students transition into adulthood.
The Power of Storytelling
At Connally High School in Waco, Texas, students confronted these challenges head-on through the Captains Circle Peer Leadership Program. Their experiences culminated in Today We Win: How Real Students Found the Answers to Life’s Tests (Volume 2), an anthology of personal narratives that delve into struggles with bullying, family dynamics, academic pressures, and self-doubt. This project not only provided a therapeutic outlet but also fostered a sense of community and resilience among the participants.
Celebrating Resilience
Special recognition goes to five remarkable students—Isaac, My’Toria, Caleigh, Bryson, and Alaina—who graduated last week. Their contributions to the book exemplify the courage and introspection needed to confront mental health challenges head-on. Their stories serve as beacons of hope for peers facing similar struggles.
Two Strategies for Supporting Student Mental Health
- Encourage Open Dialogue: Create safe spaces where students feel comfortable discussing their mental health without fear of judgment.
- Promote Access to Resources: Ensure that students are aware of and have access to mental health services, including counseling and support groups.
An Invitation to Empower
As we celebrate Mental Health Awareness Month and the achievements of the Class of 2025, we invite schools and communities to partner with Committed 2 Win. Together, we can create safe spaces, establish support groups, and promote sustained student success for the 2025–26 school year.
References
Lipson, S. K., Lattie, E. G., & Eisenberg, D. (2022). Trends in college student mental health and help-seeking by race/ethnicity: Findings from the national Healthy Minds Study, 2013–2021. Journal of Affective Disorders, 306, 138–147.

Darryl W. Thomas, Jr. is a U.S. Marine, leadership development expert, award-winning speaker, five-time bestselling author, and at-risk interventionist with over two decades of experience. He is the CEO of Committed 2 Win, a personal and leadership development community focused on inspiring, challenging, and empowering young people and adults to overcome adversity and take ownership in becoming the best version of themselves.Beyond his professional achievements, Darryl is a devoted family man, married to his high school sweetheart for 24 years and father to five children: a U.S. Marine, a TCU graduate, a University High School graduate, and two University High scholar-athletes.Let’s continue this conversation and ensure that every student knows they are not alone on their journey.Follow Darryl at LinkedIn, X and YouTube.
As summer kicks off, kids will be running around in the bleak Texas sun for hours on end. However, when the kiddos get home, they are still seeking entertainment from family and friends. The most vital activity children should engage in this season is reading! Literacy rates in our highly educated country continue to drop as teachers struggle to get students actively and emotionally connected to reading literature. Aiding in a child’s advancing literacy is setting up their future for success. The best way guardians can help kids they interact with is by supplying them with books and reading with them.

This summer, the Waco-McLennan County Library is inviting readers of all ages to participate in the Mayor’s Summer Reading Challenge, running from June 1 through July 31. The free program encourages daily reading throughout the summer, and the more days participants read, the more chances they have to win prizes. Luckily, Waco has a system of fantastic public libraries to visit. These spaces are not only meant for checking out books to read, but they have daily activities for various age ranges, encouraging community play. To sign up for a library card and register today, visit their website!
Waco also has a wonderful commitment to free, accessible literature, with Little Free Libraries placed throughout neighborhoods in the city. To find a Little Free Library near you, visit the official map. As the system works, bring a book that no longer serves you, place it in the Little Free Library, and select a novel that is calling your name! At times, it is hard to give up your precious books, so do not fret. Take a novel, and bring one back when you can. In the meantime, share it with as many people as possible, for the gift of storytelling keeps on giving.




Elizabeth Riley hails from Tennessee and is a graduate of English Literature and Professional Writing & Rhetoric from Baylor University. With passions in archival preservation, communal connection, and women in sports, she writes because it matters, with hopes of bridging villages and fostering revelry amongst them.

WACO, Texas — At Tuesday’s City Council meeting, Council Member Alice Rodriguez concluded more than 26 years of service as she passed leadership of District 2 to Isabel Lozano.
Rodriguez’s final meeting featured a mariachi performance and a reception in her honor, highlighting her decades of dedication to South Waco. Mayor Jim Holmes also announced the development of a new public space — Alice Martinez Rodriguez Park — to be built at the former Floyd Casey Stadium site in recognition of her lasting impact on the community.
Rodriguez’s legacy includes championing key initiatives such as the Cotton Palace ballfields, the Floyd Casey housing development and various Hispanic heritage programs.
The City of Waco extends its sincere gratitude to Rodriguez for her years of service, leadership and commitment to District 2.

This week’s meeting also marked the swearing-in of three council members: returning members Darius Ewing (District 4) and George Chase (District 5), as well as newcomer Isabel Lozano (District 2). All will serve two-year terms.
Additionally, Council Member Andrea Barefield (District 1) was named mayor pro tem by a vote of the council. The mayor pro tem assumes mayoral duties in the absence of Mayor Holmes.
The city looks forward to continued progress under the leadership of its newly seated council.
By: Darryl W. Thomas

Connally High Students to Host Book Signing, Celebrate Leadership and Literacy
WACO, Texas — In an era marked by mounting academic pressure and constant distractions, Connally High School is igniting a passion for learning and leadership among its students.
On May 6, the school will host a book signing for Today We Win: How Real Students Found the Answers to Life’s Tests, a student-authored compilation developed through the Captains Circle Peer Leadership Program. The event will celebrate students who completed the eight-week course focused on leadership development, accountability and advocacy.
The program, founded by U.S. Marine and leadership expert Darryl W. Thomas Jr., helps students build confidence and discover the power of storytelling. Each participant contributed a personal essay to the book, reflecting on challenges, growth and lessons learned.
“This is about helping students find their voice and realize they can be the author of their own future,” said Thomas, who founded Committed 2 Win to mentor youth through leadership training.
With 77% of Connally’s student population classified as economically disadvantaged and a similar percentage identifying as minorities, these achievements reflect the resilience and determination of a community that continues to rise above adversity.
The May 6 event will offer the public a chance to meet the young authors, hear their stories and learn more about the program’s impact. Attendees will also have the opportunity to purchase signed copies of the book.
“This is more than a book. It’s a movement,” Thomas said. “We’re building leaders who know how to use their experiences to create positive change.”
For more information about the book signing or the Captains Circle Peer Leadership Program, contact Connally High School or visit committed2win.org.
Editor’s Note: Event details are subject to change. Please verify information with the hosting organization.

Contact Committed 2 Win
O: (254) 436-7349
E: info@committed2win.com
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April is National Volunteer Month! This month, recognize and celebrate the contributions of volunteers by getting involved, developing skills, forming relationships, and making tangible impacts in our community. Consider your own interests, reflect on your availability, and apply to help businesses in the Greater Waco area! Check out the new Volunteer Board for additional opportunities.
Art Center Waco has many volunteer opportunities, including work with their art summer camps, general family events, artists workshops, and much more. Until July 2025, Art Center Waco will be accepting applications for this summer’s Elementary and Teen Art Camps. High school students have the opportunity to lead as Youth Ambassadors for Art Center Waco. Apply, email a staff member at info@artcenterwaco.org, or call the center at (254)-752-4371 for additional details.
The Waco Animal Birth Control Clinic is a primary resource for pet owners and lovers in the community. Help out the fantastic veterinarians and veterinary technicians by organizing rabies tags, cleaning and labeling syringes, and doing loads of laundry for the health and happiness of our animal friends. Visit https://www.animalbirthcontrol.org/volunteer to apply for positions and track volunteer hours.
The Cameron Park Zoo offers unique volunteering experiences, including aiding animal keepers, entertaining park guests with hands-on activities, and maintaining the grounds’ garden life. The Zoo Crew is the park’s teen volunteer program, which runs through summer and gives kids real zookeeping experiences. For applications and additional information, visit https://www.cameronparkzoo.com/programs/volunteer/.